First, give yourself permission to work through your emotions. It's not unusual to feel shock or denial; it may take a few days, or even longer, to accept that this is actually happening.
Many patients facing a transplant experience feelings of panic, fear, or anger. Others become emotionally numb and very focused on the practical tasks at hand. Often, the hardest thing is feeling like you've lost control over your life. Whatever you're feeling, it's healthy to express your emotions to people who can be supportive.
